"I can see directly when someone is mentally suffering or has physical pain", is often called. But often one mistakes in this, because not everything is always visible, such as physical damage, which in most cases is rarely visible in mental abuse. This piece is very similar to the secret of the neighbors, but nothing is less true. Another form of mental abuse can often be found in the immediate vicinity. Take for example the religious manipulations by parents on children who often take quite extreme forms. Here the sense of self-worth and self-esteem at an early stage becomes very cunning and premeditatedly undermined by the elderly according to a predetermined religious pedagogical pattern. This pedagogical concept then goes into the context of education, that it is supposedly good for someone's personal development and well-being to be able to go through life without problems.