This book is about children, and therefore it is about adults. When everyone lives from their own position, all adults and children can live fully. But sometimes adults unconsciously inwardly still reside in the child position. Children cannot help but react. Sometimes in behavior that we perceive as undesirable, for example brutality, but also in behavior that we label positively: ‘they are so caring, they are no trouble at all ...’ And then no one really goes well.

With this book, Bibi ...

Coaching is not reserved for those who have ‘coach’ on their business cards. We all coach in some way or another.

Although they may call it differently, parents, teachers, entrepreneurs, managers, therapists and consultants, they all coach often.

In Systemic coaching you learn how to apply your knowledge and skills from constellations in one-to-one situations.

In every system people are a part of, there are patterns and trauma’s. Some are obstructive. Systemic coaching can give you kno...

Wave against the current by asking the right questions.

Barbara Hoogenboom, Jan Jacob Stam en Bibi Schreuder have combined their knowledge and translated

it into questions that you can ask per theme. 224 questions spread over 45 themes. Every question has the potential to help you a step further.